So, I’ve read in here many, many times that we swingers are not easy to spot in the wild, that unless we go to a specific event or are in app, you will never know.

And even though I agree with this, I also realize that we as a couple had been in situations where other people/couples have somewhat spotted us, most times even before we even got into the LS, like they picked up a vibe we didn’t even know we had…

Here it goes:

First was during our honeymoon in the Caribbean, about a year before our first LS experience, at the hotel night club (100% vanilla) there was a couple we couldn't figure out at the time. The female was smoking hot and wouldn't stop staring at me (M45), her male partner was fully aware of this, and he didn’t say much but kept doing “cheers” with his glass to my wife's (F43) drink.

We were like “what the fuck is this people’s deal?!”.

A couple of months after this my wife uploads to IG a picture of us together, and out of the blue a guy texts her saying we looked like an interesting couple, and if we would be interested in a MFM threesome. Again, we went “what the fuck is wrong with this guy?!”

Fast forward to about a year after that, we had a full swap on our first night in a SW club.

A couple of months after this, we went to an electronic music party and the female of a couple next to us starts to flirt with my wife, we ended up doing a very soft swap during the show, in a completely vanilla environment

Have any of you guys experiences similar things?