I’ve posted on here before. My wife and I are struggling to find the best way to approach this lifestyle. We’ve tried talking to other women and it took a while for it to work and now we’re at a point where we do just fine. We’ve only met up with one girl on two separate occasions over the last 6 years that we’ve been trying. (We have kids and both work full time, so finding the time to do it is pretty tough). We’ve recently over the last month or so have been trying to talk to other guys now. We rushed into it after a night of drinking and invited a stranger over for a MFM experience. It didn’t go too well because the guy couldn’t really keep it up. We wanted to try out having my wife talk to other men but just like we struggled with talking to other women, we’re struggling here again with the men. We just can’t seem to get it right.

We’ve decided that maybe our kink isn’t really TALKING to other people. Maybe, it’s just the hook ups that really do it for us. We went to an adult theatre and she gave me a blowjob while another man watched and we loved it. We’re constantly fantasizing about being with other people but the way we’re going about it with talking to them over Snapchat or texting just isn’t working.

We are now trying to just be patient and hope that the opportunity for a threesome or a couple swap comes up but again because we have kids and are very busy, we just don’t see how we can make the time to go out and put ourselves out there for a one night experience.