I (F 25) and my partner (F 27) have been together for a year and 6 months. At the beggining of the relationship I let her know exactly what I was into, and her coming from a conservative background, she wasnt all that open to swinging but she decided to give it a try and we had our first threesome. We have been to resorts, gone on dates with guys and now she says she would like to try with another girl. We ended up deciding that going for a couple instead of a single guy would be better for us.

Last night she drops the bomb on me that LS isnt for her, she feels forced into it, and that she ultimately doesnt want to do it.

She seems to think this means we need to break up because she feels like she can't give me something that deep down I want. I told her that swinging isnt something I need but like the icing on the cake, and it wasnt necessary to break up. I feel like when the topic comes up its very uncomfortable for her, but she also tells me her fantasies and desires so I have been recieving mixed signals. One minute she wants it the next she is backing out.

I know there is no way for me to "convince" her of anythimg and I don't want to strain our relationship any more at this point. Advice?