I’m 52f and clueless at romance. I want to pick up a guy at a sex club tomorrow night. Here’s the thing though, men rarely talk to me or ask me out. I’ve been twice. No one talked to me either time. Im not unattractive. A bit chubby, but with a nice curvy shape and a nice face. I saw lots of women my age/size having a blast when I was there and I want to be one of them. How do I make the first move and also, how do I do I come off as more approachable? (I think I have the confidence to approach a man and I’m in sales, so I’m a pro at rejection, but I’m also super awkward at flirting and don’t know what to say. Any help appreciated.)
I don’t think this has been said yet but I’d suggest getting out of your comfort zone a bit and being handsy. Lots of men (me included) absolutely love it when a woman touch us. If you see a guy you are interested in, put your hand on his shoulder and say “hi”. The LS is an interesting dynamic. Women tend to have lots of power but don’t use it. Take advantage of that power and use it to your advantage. Most guys will love the attention
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