Hi

In case that you need background, you can read my previous post https://www.reddit.com/r/Swingers/s/m0GAchxzKn

We have discussed about our next steps and we have discrepancies.

She isn't into clubs or swingers. She is more open to have sex with people we know. She says needs to have attraction to the guy more than the physical one. Not emotional just sensual or sexual attraction.

I understand her but I feel that could ends to mix feelings. I'm totally against hook up with people we know outside the "swinger" world.

As I'm the one with experience as a single, I told her she can start talking with guys that we meet in swinger websites or clubs and check the feeling.

What do you recommend?

We agree to read books like Ethical Slut (I haven't read, is still updated?) Or listen podcast or watch movies about open relationship to understand our boundaries.

Suggestions?

Thanks 😊