My partner and I are somewhat new to the LS. Only been in a couple months. We have met some really amazing couples so far and really enjoy having them as friends. One couple in particular has been the most amazing. We had a 3 way swap with them for the first time (also our first full swap) and afterwards my partner and I spoke about how we liked the other couple better and not really interested in the initial couple. We still would love to do vanilla things with this couple but being intimate with them is something we don’t want to do again. They asked us to come over and hang in a few weeks. We would prefer to go to the club with other friends instead of driving so far to see them. How do we turn them down without hurting their feelings and remain friends? They are very connected in our area and pissing them off would ruin any chance of knowing other people. We love them but don’t want to play. :-(