So, last year I brought up this long time swinging fantasy of mine to my gf of 6yrs. I openly discussed some of the things that I was interested in trying. And I sat and listen to some of the things that she seemed interested in as well. After our conversation. We joined a couple of our local swinger groups on Facebook. Then after that it kinda just went nowhere to a certain extent. Showed her a couple of people who seemed interesting. But never really gotten the chance to meet others or see what it's like for ourselves. Any tips on how we get over this little hump of nervousness??
It sounds a little like you need a check in as to what her current interest level is to figure out what an appropriate next step might be. If she's still down to check out the scene, then find something nearby to try out and see if it feels like it's worth exploring more and then take it from there.
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