We are very new and have only had a few bit of fun that have gone all the way ….

We are have been open to playing with couples of all ages but have had the most fun with couples and singles 40 when we have sat down and spoke to them and formed a connection first before getting down to business but we find it really hard to get to the conversation bit… is this due to our age ???

Most people our age want to jump straight in but we would like to get to know them first , then things break down or move to fast even after us making it very clear what our boundaries are and we end up leaving.

Is it us or them or communication between all parties, we don’t know.

Thank you everyone, this community is so supportive and insightful x