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Ex-student hook up, is it OK?
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My husband (M49) and I (F44) are currently at a LS resort and on our second day we were catching some rays, laying out naked on day bed at the beach when we were approached by a younger couple (also nude). I was thrown when they called me by my name, as I didn't recognize them. They quickly realized this and and told me they were N (M25) and M (F25) and they had been students where I had worked at a school in administration.

Whilst we we had a good chat and a couple of drinks they made it clear they would like to hook up later. We played along as we certainly would like (they are both hot) but bought some time to think about it.

To point a couple of things out:

  • I only ever had minimal contact with either at school and never alone.
  • There was no attraction in my behalf at all whilst they were at school.
  • There has been no contact in the 10 years since I left.

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They’re adults, you are no longer in a position of power or authority, they expressed interest in you. You’re fine..

Thanks for your (and all the other) response. We are in that head space but always good to bounce thoughts.

We'll be catching up with them tonight.

They’re adults, you are no longer in a position of power or authority, they expressed interest in you. You’re fine..

Thanks for your (and all the other) response. We are in that head space but always good to bounce thoughts.

We'll be catching up with them tonight.

An update for those who have asked.

We caught up for drinks and then the night club. As we were getting on so well we retreated to our room where we all had a great night of activities.

We're definitely going to being do more together.

No power dynamics are in play, nor legal so I don't see the issue

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I would never say

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