So my husband and I went to Colette’s in Nola for newbie night-Wednesday…and it was completely dead. We were disappointed. We did meet one single guy and one couple-both of whom were not newbies. They were super nice but the vibe wasn’t there…probably bc the whole place was just dead. There were a few other single men there who were just so creepy. We are going back tonight in hopes we will meet couples and I’m excited that I don’t have to worry about creepy single men…at least I hope I don’t have to worry about that. How is the vibe on Saturdays if you’ve been to the one in Nola? I know it can be hit or miss, but I do know that Saturdays are the busiest night. We went on a Friday a few months ago and the single men completely ruined our experience. They were aggressive and didn’t respect other people’s space. They opened the black privacy curtains (not the sheer ones), so that made us not want to go in those rooms to have sex. I’m hoping tonight will be different.
We are very new to LS. We really aren’t sure how far we want to go but the only way to find out is to push our boundaries a bit.
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Themes can be good ice breakers but just be friendly and don't be afraid to make the first moves.