Update on wife poachers

Update to this post https://www.reddit.com/r/Swingers/s/R3JjMOGQbj

This couple has reached out to us quite often since we last dealt with them. After letting go by and allowing myself to calm down, I finally decided to respond to them and let them know why we have been avoiding them and would no longer see them again.

I explained how wrong it was of them to do what they did and that my wife and I care more about our own relationship then making somebody else’s fantasies come true the husband tried to explain that it was not their intention to drive a wedge between us and that they offered her to go back to the room it was not sexual, but to make sure she didn’t feel like she done something wrong. he tried to tell me that he considered me a good friend and he would never do anything on purpose to hurt me or upset me. He kept asking for us to meet so we can try to clear the air, but they wanted to treat us to dinner and talk things out.

First responded very defensive and said that we were the ones in the wrong for insinuating that they tried to come between us y to come between us. She then called me the next day (which is weird because we never talk one on one) she started apologizing and telling me that the only reason they tried to pull her in while I wasn’t there was to see if they can get her to loosen up so that the four of us can go back to the room for playtime. She kept telling me how intimate she was and that she didn’t want our friendship to end. The only thing she was trying to accomplish was for my wife to finally let go of her inhibition and allow the four of us to swap because she like my wife wants that but is holding herself back because of me. She tried to assure me that she had every intention on making it a full swap situation, and that she wishes my wife wouldn’t have walked away, and that I would have joined them so that the four of us could have started, kissing, touching and going back to the room.

I let her get everything off her chest and then told her that she was full of shit. That was truly what she wanted, it was still wrong because we made it clear. We were not looking for a full swap. Her goal was to convince my wife for the four of us to full swap. It should have been done with a conversation between the four of us and not a plan that her and her husband came up with to attack my wife while I was not there.

At the end, I told him not to reach out to us anymore because their invitations were going to fall on deaf ears. We have sense blocked them on social media and block their numbers so they don’t reach out to us again..