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Pansexual considering getting into the swinging scene with my wife.
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I have recently come out to myself and my wife as pan and am looking for a bi/pan guy or m/f bi/pan couple to play with. I have found posts a few years old suggesting going to queer clubs and use Grindr instead of SLS. Are these still good or is there something better. My one worry (as a male) is men being to... Umm aggressive(?). I have been with my wife since 1998, so the whole app scene is completely alien to me, and the only queer person I know is my M2F daughter, and I ain't going there.

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We are the same. I have exactly the same story. Been in the lifestyle for 2 years. Grinder is not for me. Hated it. The lifestyle is better for us. However. The one thing that stands out is being yourself always wins the day. It takes time to develop the kind of friendships you need. Finding your people takes time. We do not have a ready made group even tho bi is the largest lgbq group out there. It gets better with consistency from you.

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