We had an impromptu soft swap with friends which was amazing. That dynamic has continued, but I'd like to explore more things with more people. I think I'd feel less anxious at a club vs. meeting strangers one-on-one.

I feel more confident and empowered in lingerie, but I was wondering... is it common for women to wear lingerie at clubs? And if so, do you arrive in it, or change once you're there?

I'd also like advice on how to keep it from being removed without breaking the mood? I had a breast reduction and am self-conscious about the scars and discoloration. I'm sure someone will say no one's going to care, but I feel sexier covered, and I'm a whole lot more fun when I'm feeling sexy. FYI - It's not like people won't have access. I wear crotchless panties or put them on after my garters/thigh-highs so they can be easily removed.

I'd also like to know how recreational drugs are viewed. Specifically, weed and E. IF we imbibed, it would be before arriving, since I'm sure doing them inside the club is prohibited. To be clear, I would not be using them as false-courage. I like them strictly for the physical enhancement. Would it be frowned upon? Would we likely be the only ones there high? (Midwest.) Would we get kicked out? (Assuming we don't act inappropriately, of course.) This is a personal preference, not a deal breaker. We'll go either way. Just curious if it was an option.

Thanks for any insight.