Yep, it's not fair at all for bi guys. My hubby is straight, but he always gets a bromance going with any guy we repeatedly hook up with, and it's always fun, but so much more fun when they aren't worried about being all over each other. The first guy we had an MFM with would kinda freak if there was any accidental touching. It was fun, but kinda stressful for him.

Exactly this. I see no limits to sensuality with woman on woman action - that's just considered hot! But no wife wants to give her husband the same leave with other men or women.

Wasn’t it just yesterday that a woman posted a story about how her husband was too excited to be with a younger woman and she was getting jealous of his performance.

Yeah? That’s a thing.

The AI post?

OP is right in my opinion, too. I don't know if the men hold back because they are afraid of making their wives mad, or if they are just incapable of having sensual sex without being in love, though.

I don't know the man vs bear thing, I'll look it up.

I am not more vulnerable with women than I am with men. I don't really consider swinging a spot where I am looking to be vulnerable.

I guess sensual is a better term than passionate. I'm not referring to feelings. But women are very sensual with each other, and I haven't come across a husband who is allowed to be sensual with me. I feel like that's a double standard. If I wanted to be sensual with the woman, that would be sexy. Being sensual with her husband is creepy. I don't get it.

I can't find married men that it's been fun to play with. We keep gravitating to single men that bring a date for my hubby and those nights are super hot. There's just this weird dynamic of womenbeing allowed to be as sensual as they want with each other, but not with men. It kinda sucks for those of us on the straight side of things.

I woulda guessed from your username!!! Love it!

Nah I don't get jealous about physical stuff. We have very sensual sex with the singles we hook up with. Fucking LOVE those nights. Just wish we could find a couple to engage in the same type of fuckall fun!

Good idea on updating the bio! I just recently realized why I haven't been enjoying sex with married people, and now I'm all hostile about it. But a bio update is badly needed!

100%

Exactly how I feel. I am wild for pleasure doms, and men that take charge in bed, but I don't want to fucked roughly. I don't enough it. But frankly I haven't even had that experience swinging, it's just been lackluster.

Amen

I don't think that's where we are at. We are very restricted when it comes to emotional entanglements. We are just looking at physical fun:) but thank you for the suggestion!

That was a really thoughtful response, thank you!

Well thanks!

Agreed!!!!

The guy isn't the problem. The wife leaves the room

I'm really open about what I like. But the wives get upset and leave the room, so then of course, I just stop. It sucks

Yeah, I'm not into rough sex and being rounded, but frankly I'm haven't even gotten that from the hubbies. It feels more like fucking through a sheet.

I have with the last 2 couples. I didn't really know what to ask for with the first one.