Wondering what the point of view is for both girls and guys.

-Sometimes I can last forever. I can pound away for so long, go on whatever positions I want and not finish during a whole group session (with some external help). It always feels fantastic and I feel like I did an amazing job.

-Sometimes I have the urge to finish after some time. Let’s call it 30 mins or whatever. I can stop, take a break, use other tools.. but at the end of the day can’t go forever.

During all my experiences swapping and groups I’ve never seen a guy finish except for myself. Even then, I can get back up after some time and go again, but I don’t feel good that I did. It’s kind of disappointing not being able to last like everyone else and a little embarrassing.

What are your expectations when going into it? How do you feel when someone else finishes (is it a let down, is it ok, would you rather the male finish at some point). Etc. Just want to get other opinions since it’s pretty tough on me knowing that I “didn’t perform to the expectations” even when the experience was great and everyone seemed to have a good time.

One time I had a fantastic session probably couple hours with some water breaks in between. The girl asked if I had finished and I said no. She seemed disappointed that I hadn’t and I told her that this is exactly what I wanted and that I was really happy with it.

Any thoughts/personal experiences are welcome.