I(38F) just read through a bunch of the single female posts. I think I may have met the nearly perfect couple(42 MF)! I almost think they've been here doing research, listening to all of your advice haha. The only thing, based on my interpretation of all of your discussions, is that it was their first time, but I haven't seen any negativity associated with that. They've done so much to make me feel comfortable, they both stay in the group chat, they've asked what they could do differently to make it better for me sexually and non-sexually, they seem to be completely in love with each other and have good communication....I can't think of anything you've all recommended to couples that they haven't done! This was my first time and theirs, and all happened organically in the wild. I've been thinking about it for a long time and had one short experience with a stripper and my ex bf, but this was the first real experience for all of us.