My partner and I are planning our first visit to a swingers club. We’ve been trying to listen to advice and do our research. Talk about boundaries, etc. one thing that keeps coming up in podcasts and articles is how hot the women are. A couple of the podcasts. I’ve listened to go out of their way to point out how hot and fit their wife is Now my question is, is there a place for plus size women as well? I understand that people can be attracted to different types but going into a club like this, is it mostly geared toward a certain body type of women? I understand that people can be attracted to different types but going into a club like this is it mostly geared toward a certain body type of women? is there a more appropriate venue for someone like myself?
There are men and women of all sizes. You will find plenty of people that will interact with you. Lots of men love bigger women. There are couples looking to play with bigger people. I am big guy 6'3 290lbs and I have played with all body types. The most important thing is to talk to people. Don't stand on the wall waiting for people to approach. Let your personality shine and interact.
Depending on who you listen to, I have been shocked listening to descriptions given and seeing the same people in photos. Sometimes fit is a loose description. A lot of times people oversell. I think you’d be surprised at how many people gravitate towards plus sized women. I’m married to a woman with a curvy mom bod that has the confidence to work it. I’d take that any day of the week. Be confident, be your amazing self. You’ll have a great time.
one thing that keeps coming up in podcasts and articles is how hot the women are.
Hot is relative, but women of all types are swingers.
What I do find is, despite what people say online, like mostly attracts like.
There was(is maybe) a group local to me which was BBW only.
There is another group, which while anyone can come, is mostly thin and attractive 30 somethings.
Older groups will start to attract older, younger younger.
We've been at events/clubs where we are objectively the hottest in the room.
We've been to events/clubs where we are objectively the worst looking couple there.
We've been both in the same club depending on the day we went.
MOST clubs though, tend to have a little of everything. Swinging is too small a world to overly segregate by any type, and clubs need to stay open.
We’ve found plus size is the norm more than anything else. Own your inner goddess. Women rule the LS world, you’re gonna have plenty of options and an amazing time.
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I can second this. Trapeze is mostly HWP people. The other parties and hotel takeovers I see a much more diverse crowd. That said if you’re outgoing you still can meet people at trapeze if you are a bigger person.