I was talking to a vanilla friend the other day. I was going over the various women I have played with over the past year. He mentioned none of the women was my "type". The women I dated in the past before I got re-married had some variety but nowhere near who I have played with. In fact the women I dated the most are barely represented in the LS at all (Which is an entire post to itself). Most of the women I have played with I would have never dated or thought they would want to date me. Now when I am out I notice and find many more different types of women attractive. I am curious if anyone else has had the same experience?
Another person said the same thing. Very interesting. I am curious how that progressed.
That is interesting. How did that progress?
I have had the reverse. I am bigger guy and I have had sex with fit petite women for the most part in the LS .
I think having sex with an older woman really change how see them. We look young so we often play with couple much younger than us.
Married swinger is better than being single any day. It has really opened me up too. Last weekend I had a great time with a woman 12 years older than me. It was a first. This past week at the gym I been like hmmmm I wonder when I see a slightly older lady walk by.
I feel like my teenage virgin self sometimes. In the middle of having sex thinking I can't believe this woman is happy and excited to have sex with me. It's mind blowing for a former fat kid.
Makes sense. I fit a "type" so I know most of the women I play with it mostly because I fit that "type" and little to do with me as a person.
This is definitely true for us too. Lots of people we would have never interacted with at all. Now some of those people are friends.
Husband here. I never had a type when I was single, and that trend seems to have continued in the LS.
No.
My type for casual sex is going to include a wider range than my type for a LTR.
Playing with and dating a very different things IMO. There are swinger women I really like, but I wouldn't date. The ones I'd date if single all tend to be "my type" for an LTR in both looks and personality.
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True, I just have found myself wanting to fuck people I never did before.