My partner and I recently decided to attend an adults only party at a swingers club at my encouragement. She has been to parties like this in the past and I have not. I’m excited but also nervous about how I may feel about seeing my partner with someone else. Again, this is my idea but that still doesn’t negate me from being nervous. She is telling me we will talk about our boundaries before we go. My partner is more of a live in the moment person and I’m more of a plan and prepare person.
I’d like to know more about what I can expect. Are there general rules people follow? For people that have went to a swingers club, what would you go back and tell yourself to prepare for your first time?
Thanks!
I would tell myself it’s not near as scary as I believed.
Like a big party with way sexier outfits.
Pretty simple, respect, consent, don’t get trashed and have fun.
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