My partner and I have been on the sites a while now, it’s usually just him on it but recently I created a profile too and added lingerie pics, no face pics.

Tonight I get a message from a blank profile that had just been created saying just my name, like ‘Lauren??’

What the hell do I do, I feel like reverting back and stepping away from all of this as it’s definitely not something I’m open to people with.

My partner says the only thing he can think of was a couple of months ago he was chatting with a guy and after sending face pics they replied to say that they recognised me, and they wouldn’t say who they were or send pics so my partner blocked him.

How do I approach this message, would you say reply to it to find out who it is that knows me? Or ignore and block and try move past the fact that I’ve been recognised?