My wife and I have had two threesomes with another woman. Weāve also had same room sex with another couple (no swap).
Tonight, we took the risk and found a male on Reddit to experiment. I never saw my wife with another man before. Iāve always had the kink but never really wanted to go through with it until recent. My wife was scared too. I let them be alone together for the first few moments. I assumed they were just going to talk. When I walked back in about 5 seconds later she was already sucking his dick and my first emotions were angry and upset that it happened so quickly. Like she was too eager to get going. I accepted that maybe she was just nervous and wanted to get started instead of having conversation. So I continued in and began to watch her suck his dick while he lied down. Again, I started to get frustrated because she paid no attention to me for the first few minutes. I jacked off right next to her face, I grabbed her ass, and nothing. Not a word or even a glance at me. I could no longer get it up. Finally, after about 5 minutes, she turned and asked me to fuck her. I was too upset but didnāt want to say anything so I just asked her to suck my dick while he fucked her from behind. The lack of eye contact with me made me really upset again.
I decided to put my emotions aside and let my wife enjoy the moment. So I stepped aside and told her ājust enjoy it babyā when she asked why I stepped away. They went on for quite some time while I recorded and jacked myself off. Finally, he came on her boobs and left immediately which I appreciated.
I expressed my emotions to my wife afterwards and she feels extremely guilty but I do too because I donāt want her to feel like she did something bad. We semi argued about it for a while and then had very aggressive sex after. Now weāre getting ready for bed. I have no idea how to feel right now
Itās totally normal to have a lot of feelings or emotions after this, so nothing wrong with that. I do think youāre being too hard on her. First off, it sounds like the communication was way off. Boundaries and some kind of loose expectations should have been set ahead of time. Second, she likely had some jitters or nerves if she hadnāt done this before, which should be taken into account. I was so nervous my first time. Sounds like you two have some experience so that might not be the case here. Lastly, itās takes some getting used to trying to please two guys at once. It isnāt as seamless as it looks in porn. Itās really easy to kind of get tunnel vision on trying to please one while sort of forgetting the other for a little bit. Iām better than I once was, but it still happens. Or itās possible that MFM is something that youāre simply not comfortable with. Keep communicating and good luck.
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