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So far the journey has been so much fun.
Yes some ups and some downs but as a whole we have been fortunate and having a blast.
We have met a few great couples to far, and have gone full swap when we didn’t think we would so quickly.
The experience we had with threesomes helped ease us into it.
We have also done a few new threesomes and are actually meeting a new guy today.
So our new approach is with couples. We actually reach out and engage. Instead of waiting to be approached or messaged, we just shoot our shot to those we find would be a match and just make the first move.
Worst thing that can happen is they don’t respond (or say no thank you). But basically not being defeated and just keep moving on.
So far we’ve actually had new couples respond and are actually gonna meet two new couples this upcoming month (May).
We are gonna start doing more events too soon. We just recently added SLS and saw a few events that work with our schedules.
Super excited and in a groovy mood.
(Also we have been hitting the gym) having lost 50 lbs since last year has definitely helped my confidence.
Thanks again for everyone’s advice and encouragement. You all rock.
A lot of people are only waiting to be approached. And as soon you approach them, it opens up extremely. We do it the same way.
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