So me and the wife met a nice good looking couple that we haven't played with yet but plan to when schedules work. But we have noticed that the texting really seems to be only between the 2 girls which is fine but also feels weird. The couples girl will message and I (male of our couple) respond with an answer and stating the wife is asleep for the night and the other lady just says ok goodnight like we can't chat still which I wouldn't understand if it was separate cuz of there rule but it's in a group chat. Nothing would be hidden. It's not the end of the world but my wife would like to get to know the male of there couple also more since she talks for him alot. Not the end of the world just don't know if this is normal or if we are just new and things to much about it. There a good looking couple and nice and first meeting felt smooth so we dont want to be weird and ask about this stuff and ruin a good thing. Just curious of other people experiences and if this is kinda normal the girls go off and do there chats and guys do there own chats. I'd like to flirt some haha
Maybe some rule of them.
We're currently chatting with a couple, where only she and i do the writing. Occasionally, my wife joins and makes a comment, but the other husband isn't a chatter either.
It's up to you if you take it as a red flag or not.
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