So, my partner and I have semi entered the LS. I have dabbed a toe in with a previous partner. Since then, I (M) realized I’m on the bi spectrum and I have a bit of exhibitionist kink.

That idea comes from the fact that we had a 3some with the focus on the guy being with me while I was with my partner. It didn’t quite work out that way, but when we started, he just watched us for a bit which I found really hot.

So, in a bit of dirty sex talk yesterday with my partner, I mentioned that same room play would be fun. Afterward, when we talked about my dirty talk, she said she would be interested to explore but thought video first. (She is straight and more ok with the idea of adding a guy for my benefit.)

I said the challenge would be to ensure that it wasn’t recorded and that it’s pretty separate/disconnected for the arousal aspect for everyone I think. ie difficult to find a real couple cool with that.

Thoughts or ideas for this as a first safe step?

TIA