What is it like when you experience physical/sexual attraction to a woman other than your partner? Is it emotional? Does it diminish your attraction to your partner? Do you compare the two women? I find that more information always helps me and I’m struggling with insecurity in the LS. I am just so curious about what male sexual attraction feels like.
Husband here. It’s not emotional—it’s physical. I don’t compare them because my wife is my ideal.
Forgive the crude analogy, but it’s like this: I love steak. I could eat a nicely prepared filet every day. But from time to time I really like a slice of pizza. It doesn’t diminish how I feel about steak.
It honestly depends on the situation. If it’s a FWB it’s slightly physical but personality goes a lot further. If it’s a hey let’s play it’s mostly physical. I find myself attracted to curvy women like my wife. It does not diminish my feelings for her. If anything, it reinforces my attraction to my wife. It’s that openness and willingness on each of our parts to be secure in our bond and share each other in a way not all people can.
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