How do you guys navigate jumping into the lifestyle? We know what we want but not how to find it or act on it. 1st timers here. Thanks for any pointers.

Backstory: 31F 35M on the search for a couple. We are open to MFM and FMF but have no desire to touch the same sex. Our ideal scenario would be a couple 18-45 who has little to no experience in the lifestyle like ourselves and is looking to explore as well. We have both only had a few partners and have been faithful to each other for the last 14 years. This has always been taboo for us but has recently sparked our interest.

Can anyone give us advice on where to go and how to approach fulfilling these fantasies? Any pointers will be appreciated. We are heading out of town this weekend and are looking to jump into the lifestyle while we are away from home.

Her: Mostly vanilla with a few who fulfill her mans fantasies and engages in all activities/kinks that he presents. Looking for: passionate slow sex (mf/mf; mfm; fmf) Prefers younger in shape (jock type) males

Him: Doesn’t yuck anyones yum, will try almost anything once. Is still discovering the many kinks and figuring out what he prefers. Looking for: passionate to rough sex (mf/mf;mfm;fmf) Prefers younger females who are maybe looking for a wilder time and doesn’t mind a little kinky fun.

How do we word this to appease the audience we are looking for all while trying to weed out all of the single men?