Hi! We’re J and LV. It’s been about 5 years since we made the decision to open our bedroom and develop friends with whom we can be intimate and sexual with. As of about 3 years ago the new couples we meet, (We don’t have an issue with the first couples we met and continue to play with) have had the same recurring issue. The man can’t stay hard for my misses. She is starting to internalize this. She’s usually pretty excited to make new friends and she is a pleaser by nature and guys are always hard when getting their dick sucked. The group chats involve a lot of flirting although a lot of men seem afraid to say their desire to fuck my girl. I imagine this may be symptomatic of the issue at hand I just don’t know how to get down to the root of the issue. Is it a lack of confidence on their side, are they secretly cucks that want me to fuck their wife while they watch?( most times I end up fucking my girl and their wife[something most men wouldn’t complain about, however my wife is getting left out and it upsets me because she’s excited about this also])Are there any couples out there that have come into similar situations and was there anything specific you spoke about or did that brought positive change?
We have had some non performers in our experiences. It happens, and it’s difficult not to internalize.
My hubs has a rule, if the other guy is not getting hard we switch back to primary partners. If his wife who knows all the buttons to push can’t get him hard I can’t. It’s pissed a couple of the females off but, my hubs isn’t going to watch me ride the struggle bus.
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There is no way to find out ahead of time who will and will not perform. In our opinion, chatting AND flirting via some messaging platform seems to make the other husbands less “worried”, as they can establish a rapport and not have that “deer in the headlights look”. If a guy can’t, Mrs Luvs will try her darnedest to get him up, but if it’s a no go, we’re switching back or leaving altogether.
Reddit users kept mentioning trimix. It's an injection you put in their dick. Works perfectly. Truly a miracle drug. It makes your dick hard and keeps it hard for hours as long as you use enough (varies widely based on user) and get it in the chamber (i just learned this detail). It's about $200 per bottle, but the bottles have about 20ish injections based on the amount of solution we are using.
Was just with a guy who gets a priaprism with it ecerythime he uses it, so he has to take the antidote everytime when he's done fucking. Previously he had gone to the ER twice to have it drained. Super important to not use it on a night you take any oral ED meds.
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“Do you think you can get hard or does your wife need to give it a try”.