Hello, everyone! This is my first post here on Reddit. My wife (F43) and I (M44) have been married for 8 years. Lately, we've been exploring ways to spice things up in our relationship and delve into new experiences. About a year ago, we started experimenting with pegging. We're seeking advice on exploring the lifestyle further. We once visited Sameplace bar in Amsterdam, but it didn't quite meet our expectations. However, we're considering giving it another shot during our summer trip to Europe this year. From my research, Fata Morgana in Amsterdam or Oops Barcelona seem like potential options (we haven't finalized our summer travel plans yet). To be transparent, we don't have any intentions of playing with others. Our main interest is in observing, and if the mood strikes, perhaps engaging in some play alone. I would greatly appreciate any tips and suggestions you might have. Also, just to clarify, the idea of exploring the lifestyle initially came from me (the husband). While my wife isn't objecting, I wouldn't say she's overly enthusiastic about it either. Thanks