Obviously I will still try to chip in here and there or get them a gift or something, but I’m wondering if there’s anything else that I should know.

We are taking an all inclusive adults only cruise - not marketed to swingers. We will all be staying in the same cabin. There’s 1 king bed, but also a pull out couch. Her husband is really into humiliation, so I can see us alternating which one of gets the bed. We don’t use condoms, (all of us have been tested regularly and wife has an IUD), but I’m planning on bringing some anyways just can case we meet another woman/couple.

I will have to do some work with me so I’ll be taking my laptop, so I was thinking that one thing that I could do is treat them both to a spa day or ocean excursion on days where I need to get work done.

My only concern is that the cabin appears to be quite small (did a google search) and so we’ll be in close quarters for a very long period of time (one week). I’ve spent the entire weekend at their place before, but as an introvert, I do enjoy sometime to myself every now and then. Part of me is worried that this might be too much of a good thing, but I’m also really excited as I have never taken a cruise before.