What is up with the amount of people that flake on others? The wife and I canât ever get anyone to commit to anything. We end up having weeks of hot texting and conversations. Then when itâs comes time to meet up just for drinks or dinner with no pressure or obligation after that itâs goes silent and never hear from them again.
So far weâve had two couples go silent on us and more than a handful of single guys do the same. I jokingly say to my wife âhow hard is it to find someone to fuck my wifeâ lol.
- If weâre not making plans within a couple days of chatting we assume theyâre pen pals or itâs gonna âflash in the panâ before we ever meet. Online sucks!
- The whole reason we started going to clubs. Real people looking for real people. Also some have their own sites to meet people.
Those people are just looking for sexting partners. We have found if we donât meet within a week or two of connecting (just for drinks and vibe check) they are probably just looking to sext and arenât serious about swinging.
Donât let it get to you, we have had so many flakes over the years. We donât start sexting until after we have met in person for this reason.
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