Looking for recommendations for a remote and/or app controlled wearable toy for women. We play with another couple and the plan is to buy one for me and one for her. The idea came about because we're going to a concert in May (LCD in Chicago, in case anyone else is going), but ideally I'd like to be able to use them in quieter environments too, specifically nice restaurants. They live 1.5 hours away so it'd be a huge bonus to be able to play even when we're not together. However, I'm not sure a single toy can check all those boxes.

I was originally looking at the We-Vibe Moxie, but I read the We-Vibe app is unreliable. Lovense Ferri seems to get great reviews, but I'm worried it might be too loud. The Satisfier Sexy Secret and Vedo Niki are two others I've heard favorably mentioned.

I'd love to hear opinions from people that have tried them, especially if you've tried more then one.

P.S. I already have a We-Vibe Chous, so I'm specifically looking for a clitoral panty vibe, but she's open to all suggestions. We're willing to pay for quality, so price isn't an issue.