So many newbie questions of how to be accepted. Here are just a few tips.

Don’t act like a newbie. The reason so many experienced swingers avoid new people is because so many don’t know what they want or what they are doing and it almost always leads to DRAMA.

Set black and white boundaries and stick to them.

Have 100% open communication with your spouse. Also with your play partners.

I’m sorry for saying this but if you have a ton or rules and boundaries (like no kissing) it will be a turn off for many.

Warning LS sites suck and are full of flakes, dick pics, single creepy guys.

If you go to LS parties, clubs, resorts and want to play you have to be outgoing and talk to people. If you are both shy the LS will be difficult for you.

Jealousy will happen in some way for most couples when starting out. Be ready don’t let it become drama. TALK to each other. It’s just sex.

Control your alcohol. No one wants to play with sloppy drunks other than other sloppy drunks. Again bad decision and drama.