During a recent discussion with the wife, we were split on the topic of what would be the best way to initiate conversation with unicorns.

More often than not, the men seem to initiate most communication within the lifestyle, and will eventually bring their significant other in after vetting has taken place. But when it comes to unicorns, that seems like it could a bit uncomfortable for them to be approached by a man.

Scenario 1: The unicorn could have suspicions when a man initiates the communication and questions whether he is being truthful about their intentions and circumstances.

Scenario 2: Being approached by a woman could ease reservations they may have as women can verify their own intentions and boundaries.

I am thinking the woman initiating conversation is the better option while the wife feels the man should initiate it despite possible reservations.

Just wondering others thoughts/experiences on this…