Hello all you wonderful people!
I recently updated my BIO on SLS and wanted to get some feed back if that's allowed here? I've been in the lifestyle for a while now but my profile sucked so I just spent some time rewriting it. I would absolutely love some feedback from the couples and/or wives in here if you're willing. I tried my pretty hardest to showcase my personality and my likes without sounding arrogant or childish. Before anyone asks, yes, I do have pictures on my profile and all of the usual stuff.
In my looking for:
The ones seeking who and what I am...that's who I want to connect with
In the main bio section I have this:
Selling yourself is hard. It's like when your boss asks what you did at work all day and then all of the sudden you're just like "IDK". I can't say I'll try my hardest on this but I'll try my pretty hardest. This may be a bit wordy but the good profiles usually are.
I am a blunt, honest, and respectful kind of guy. I'm not the clingy type and respect personal space. I wont make first contact with profiles that explicitly exclude single males. I have zero interest in taking your time by hassling you or convincing you I'm perfect because I'm not. I know my place in this lifestyle and am perfectly comfortable with it. If you are seeking single males and I think we may hit it off I'll reach out and introduce myself. If you're not interested and a message isn't returned that's perfectly ok. I won't message again. I do appreciate a "no thanks" message though for what it's worth. I won't send unsolicited pics of my junk. Really how many different angled pictures can you take of one? I won't just say "Hey" if I message you. In my opinion that's boring, shows a real lack of effort, and is disrespectful in a way. I'll read your profile and look to see if we may be a match before messaging. I like to try and get a sense of someone before introducing myself.
I can be a bit reserved at times but open up pretty quickly (especially if there is whiskey involved). I'm a pretty open book once I get going and sometimes have a weird sense of humor. I tend to be a bit sarcastic but not in the rude way. I love to hang out and chat with people as the "vanilla" 3rd or help enact whatever fantasies and desires you might have. This is all fun for me, I do this for fun, not because I have to. My goal is to leave you happy and smiling so hopefully it's fun for you too! I love to flirt or tease! It's the absolute best way to get the juices going. I enjoy laughing and making people laugh. Having a good laugh with someone is one of my absolute favorite things.
You will typically find me outside (especially in the summer) fishing, playing some sort of sport, wandering the woods, enjoying a nice BBQ with friends, or sitting on the lawn at Pine Knob jamming to whoever I like that particular week. I love tattoos! I have a few but am working on more. If you have some I would love to see them. I'm a bit of a nerd and really enjoy obscure movie and T.V quotes. If you can go toe to toe with me there then we are off to a great start.
I'm not really a bed hopper kind of guy. The occasional one night stand is fun but life is about quality over quantity for me. I value solid friendships and relationships with a deep passion.
As for my physical stats; I'm 35, 6 ft, 220 lbs, piercing blue eyes, sport a decent smile, and have the frame of a linebacker. I take care of myself but am not an Adonis type.
My face pics are set to private. If there is interest I will open them up for you. If you think we may click I would love to hear from you!
Would I rather be feared or loved? Easy. Both. I want people to be afraid of how much they love me.
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