We messaged a couple we saw on a swinging platform after they commented on how sexy a photo of us was. We introduced ourselves and mentioned how long we’d been in the lifestyle. They responded with their own intro and mentioned they weren’t really in the lifestyle but liked to meet people and have occasional fun. We let them know that “in the lifestyle” just meant that we have sex with others together and that it wasn’t anything too serious, you know. We asked if “had some fun on occasion” meant the same for them. We just wanted to be clear about what they were into. They responded, “Well we're not swingers if that's what you mean lol.” We were a bit confused but we asked what they meant exactly by fun and told them boundaries were important because we wanted to respect their dynamic. They told us “It’s ok good luck”.

Did we do anything wrong? Lol would love some feedback because we’re not sure what happened. We don’t mind that they lost interest, we’re just not sure why. Is this a learning opportunity or were they a bit off 😵‍💫?