I know this is like asking which is your favorite kid (my youngest, by the way) but do you have any experiences that completely stand out from the rest?
Even as new as we are (3 months into this) I'm not sure I can narrow it down to just one. But the ones that stand out to me all have similar attributes. If it's a couple date, all parties are equally enthusiastic and respectful of boundaries. Personally, I also love it when each person is willing to take a literal seat and let the other three play. I also love when each of the girls has some time when all of the attention is on them.
If it's a party, an all girl orgy is so damn hot. We had one experience where the night started out with 4 or 5 girls all playing together and little by little they each invited their partners in. At any given time, there were two, three, or four play piles all within arms reach of each other and moving between all of them was so much fun. We had an audience the whole time of people who either weren't playing at all, or were taking breaks. No one was super creepy or aggressive. It was just flat out fucking sexy. I think that might be my favorite.
What makes for a great experience for you? Any stand outs?
We've never had more girls than guys (other than the aforementioned someone taking a break) but it's something we'd both like to experience. We almost had a lesbian couple play with us, but we met at a vanilla event and they were both pretty drunk so I'm not sure they were still interested when they sobered up the next morning lol. Glad you guys enjoyed your time and I want to hear about the next chapter!
I'm super interested in this. We're still very happily soft swap only but considering taking that next step. My wife's biggest concern is the sensual, romantic part. She wants the intense fucking (she even says that she doesn't want missionary because he'd be in her space - which he'd already be all up in her other "space" but hey, to each their own lol). She also says she doesn't like when I touch a girl's face when we kiss because again, that's intimate. You guys liked the romantic sex aspect of it, though. I know you said you weren't expecting that, but do you think you would have been okay with it had you discussed it beforehand?
Omg, yes! Our first time playing in front of other people was so hot!
I think one of our favorites was the time that I, wife, had sex with one of the security guys at a club. Once husband and I were leaving, there was a single girl who we had been hanging out with earlier that night. She couldn’t get an uber driver to accept and take her home, so we offered. Surprisingly she said yes, and let’s just say that we didn’t get home till the sun was back out lol Pretty great night for the both of us!
Stripper/customer which eventually turns into SW/John. We have names and everything 😁
Playing with other people around that don't know what's going on is a huge turn on for me. Great story!
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He's a lucky man (as we all are with awesome wives like you)! And it sound like you guys have great friends, too. It sounds like an amazing night and super hot!