I need some advice. I'm a 21-year-old woman and I've been seeing a 20-year-old guy. He's very sweet and has made it clear that he isn't interested in a committed relationship, but he acts like a really good friend and is mostly there for me. When we first started seeing each other, I would buy him gifts and show affection through poetry, but he wouldn't reciprocate in the same way. I understand that it might have not been appropriate to express myself this way in the first month, but I'm naturally inclined to give gifts. Since then I pulled back, we took a month-long break, and when we saw each other again recently, we had sexual encounters, but he only wanted to please me. I'm starting to have feelings for him again, and I've told him that it worries me. But despite that, I'm still interested in trying out new experiences with him.

I'm considering having a threesome with him and another girl I'm interested in. He seems interested in her too, but I'm unsure if it's a good idea or if I'm too emotionally attached to him. Please, I need advice.