We’re not swingers. I’m not sure what you’d call us. We’re sex enthusiasts and curious about a lifestyle, or maybe just a little extra spice. We’ve roll played for years now and despite my efforts to please, it just doesn’t seem to be enough for my husband. He has a very hungry sexual appetite and is ready for the next level. Not sure I’m quite there yet. We’ll be going to New Orleans in May and I was researching the LS Club there, Colette. While I’m not necessarily interested in joining others, I thought it would be fun to watch with him and even put on a show ourselves.
Any insight to the lifestyle and/or Colette would be helpful. We’ve been together for 23 years. Our relationship is strong and I love having sex with him and pushing the boundaries. How will I know if I’m ready to take the next step?
Colette is cool, you can definitely just go and eat for be watched. The bottom level is a club (though it’s BYOB) and the top is where people play. You can put on a show and unless you are really forward, most likely others won’t come on to you.
You could also try going to The Drifter Hotel if he’s more into seeing you as an exhibitionist. It’s a topless pool and the ladies wear very revealing suits in general, even if wearing tops.
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Yeah as others have said, go on Saturday when single men aren’t allowed. It’s the liveliest night anyway. And yes, you can go to the drifter without staying there. They often have live music and they have a good bar! Could be a good way to see how you feel entering a more liberated space.