We (46M/43F) are based in New England, and club options are limited, with the closest one being an off-premises club. We have kids who are too young for us to leave alone for long nights out, so we have to be strategic about when we go out. We’d probably be further along in our lifestyle journey if we had more opportunities. We’re considering looking at takeovers and house parties to sort of “expand our repertoire.” But would they offer more bang for our buck, so to speak? (Pun intended, naturally)
Let’s hear about your experiences with these options. Do you prefer them over clubs? Do you end up hooking up with people more at one than the other?
My “more bang for your buck” comment may have been misleading. I’m not assigning a dollar value but more a time value, but alas I’m a sucker for a double entendre.
We can only get away every so often, so we’re weighing the different options to see what would give us the greatest chances for successful hookups.
Some of what you said still applies, though.
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I’ve seen some takeovers on SLS, but you have to do battle with their shitty Events search.