So lately my Gf suggested we go to a SPA and Sauna and i was totally fine until we went there and she didn’t tell me that the you can’t go inside sauna with any clothes on you have to be naked and it was her birthday so i was hesitant about it and didn’t even know what to say at that situation she comforted me and told me it’s fine no one will be looking at us everyone will be naked and busy with his own thing And the whole time i was feeling protective over her and she noticed and told me to let go and enjoy being free of anything at the end of the day i started to like the whole situation and told her i enjoyed it but it somehow feels wrong to me that other people get to see you naked but as long as we are together i feel safe

Now i am thinking about the whole thing everyday and i want to ask her if we can go again but as the same time i am afraid that this will evolve to become more than just being naked with other people She asked me before what do i think about threesomes but I laughed and told her no way any other man putting his hands on you and we laughed about it and that was it

I feel lost and i need some advice I don’t know what do i want