We are not in the lifestyle yet, but we fantasize it a lot. As of right now I’m nowhere near ready and have work to do. She said she has zero interest in guys at the moment, only girls so i have time to work on myself. Looking for any YouTube videos or podcasts that have helped them.

I don’t remember the exact specifics, but basically we were in a fight, and then she was with some guy who she basically left with and that was the end of the dream.

This dream messed me up. I never had jealousy issues with her before (if I did they were minimal), but the weeks after when we went out, I was getting jealousy/insecurity when she would talk to other people. She’s extremely high energy and personable (which is what I love about her), and can talk to anyone.

We finally talked about it and I was able to release some of it to her which helped. Also started watching videos and have been changing my mindset and we went out this weekend and I had zero feelings of what I had before, so it’s getting better.

Maybe the dream brought my jealousy/insecurity issues out so I can face them?