Being a good-looking, straight single guy who is sexually active, i take a lot of precautions like testing every 3 months. Give a gap of at least 4-6days before sleeping with the other couple. No bareback vaginal sex. But bare oral is something i am ok with. So i have a lot of couples reaching out asking for going bare. Their point is if i can do bare oral, then bare vaginal is no brainer. STDs can be infected via oral, too. For them, covered vaginal sex doesn't make sense in such a case. How can i justify my covered vaginal sex preference to them? Is oral relatively safe than bare vaginal?? Or am i just naive and start covered oral, too??
Just like couples have boundaries, singles need to have boundaries too. That is why we have the initial meet ups to establish what those are. Couples need to respect that single men and women have feelings. They are not just playthings to fulfill a need. I also struggle with the stigma that men can’t say no. No is no. If it can’t be agreed upon then don’t play. I appreciate the precautions you do take and hopefully you find some people that respect those boundaries.
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But is for some. My lady is not on BC (I have vasectomy).