I survived breast cancer but the scarring and disformity of my right boob is obvious and makes me self-conscious even with my husband. Yet we have discussed at length and have agreed to try our first swingers club.

QUESTION - How common is it for the lady in the playroom to wish to wear the top of her Teddy? If it fell off, it would ruin my fun. So I need assurance that this happens often enough that I am not a unicorn in a bad way. LOL

My husband suggests I reveal my good breast as that nipple is very sensitive whereas the right breast has lost most of its sensitivy because of the cancer surgery. An good idea, perhaps, but halfway off is less secure and I may splash my bad boob which could ruin the fun for me and whomever I am with.