Would love to get some perspective here. Several years ago I (31m) struggled with ED while swinging over the last two years, so I started taking two Blue Chew before playing (30mg Sildenafil each). Blue Chew effects are always impacted by alcohol/food intake and of course how horny you are, but for the most part they have always helped. Until lately.

This week my girlfriend and I played with another hot couple we had been interested in. The ENTIRE night I couldn't get hard. This was after multiple blowjobs, time with my partner trying to get me going, and of course reassurance that it was "all ok, don't worry about it". Everyone else seemed to be having a great time except for me, and I desperately wanted to get hard because I was honestly very attracted to the other girl. I felt betrayed by my BlueChew, and I honestly had only one drink to prepare for the night. I never have any issues while playing with my girlfriend alone, and usually during swapping she is able to get me going again, but even she couldn't do anything in this situation.

It's not the first time this has happened in the last few months with incredibly attractive people that I want to fuck, and it's difficult not to feel like there's something wrong with me. I ordered the 50mg BlueChew to try and take two of those, but that hasn't arrived yet. Do I need to be taking some other kind of pill?

Any advice is welcome for this flaccid fella.