We (46M, 43F) hit up Choice for the second time this past weekend. We were there earlier this year for their Lock & Key event (which was super fun, btw) and liked the vibe so we went back for the Bunny event.
The staff is very organized, and we loved the tour for new members.
The place is spacious with lots of rooms and beds to do your thing in. They’ve also got a glory hole room (though we didn’t see anyone using it), a massage room, a classroom-themed room, an orgy room, and an area where those that partake in BDSM can stage scenes for all to see.
There were a lot of people there at both events we’ve gone to, and of the people we spent time with, we noticed they were around our age range (late 30s into 40s), though we could also tell there were folks who were younger and older than us.
Something else we noticed was a lack of singles. I don’t think we saw any single guys either time we visited. I’m not saying that as a pro or con, but as something noteworthy.
We met a nice group of people that we ended up closing down the place with, which was pretty cool. We’re still newbies to the LS, so we didn’t go full swap, but the couples we met were very cool, not pushy, and fine with the pace of play we were comfortable with.
We’re looking forward to the next opportunity we get to be in the Providence area. Choice will be our go-to.
The overall vibe of the place. It was very chill. We felt very much at home there.
It’s honestly what you make of it. They do a great job establishing the rules, and they are very consent-oriented. You can go there and just socialize. Just be up front with your experience and comfort levels. Everyone’s been super nice, and we still consider ourselves new.
We go for whatever’s cheapest at the time that isn’t too far of an Uber away from the club. It’s also gotta have breakfast included. No clue if anyone else from the club are also there. Most seem to be local.
We’ve heard it’s a good idea to stay away from Playground anyway. We hit up ESC once, but it turned out to be a theme we weren’t into. We didn’t encounter any many singles, but we prolly weren’t their ideal demographic.
Ahhhhh, that explains it. Single guys aren’t our thing. We’ve read horror stories of pushy single guys creeping people out, so it’s a relief to see Choice takes steps to curb the creep.
I think there was some group sex going on, but a lot of the rooms had the doors and curtains closed so we couldn’t say for sure.
It might be a little cliquey, but there were a lot of new people there both times we went. And both times we played- parallel play with another couple the first time and a group thing this most recent time. We soft swapped after the other couples kicked things off with a hard swap. We kept our door and window open.
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In Providence, Choice seems like the clear winner. One thing it didn’t mention was the vetting process. After you submit your application, it does take a while for them to get back to you. It took a couple of weeks for us. Once they reach out, they’ll need to speak to both of you. So if you’re planning to go there, apply asap.