There is a couple we have been friends with for around 8 year. We would get together 3-4 times a year for naked hot tubing and soft swap (they were only soft swap) We also went to Desire a couple times with them.
We moved a couple hours away and haven’t seen them in a couple of years. Recently I (M) got a message from the wife of the couple. We chatted a bit and she told me they got divorced over a year ago.
I’ll be going back to where she lives this week and her and I are meeting for dinner and to catch up. My wife trust her and is fine with me paying with her solo.
Thoughts on playing with friends after divorce?
We've had good friends divorce, the kind we'd hang out with vanilla style too.
Even though they are remarried and still swinging, it just doesn't feel right to play with them. I think a lot depends on the divorce but a lot of emotions can be involved and hard feelings. I'd rather stay on good terms with both parties.
Added I'd definitely be worried about solo dating like that. Sure it might be fun but open marriage situations can be quite hard to navigate for swinging.
Long story long I don't think its bad in all cases, but its not something we would be comfortable with.
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