Looking at all the pics MF4M post, huge cocks are all the rage! What’s a small guy to do? Any chances of being the extra guy in a 3sum or should I give up the hope?
We used to play with a couple. The husband has a really small dick. My wife was a bit disappointed, but it was ok. However the guy started whining about it. My wife couldn't take his pity party, so we stopped seeing them. Had he been confident it would have been different.
That’s absolutely cool.
I think there’s an important difference between your first reply (which implied the rhetorical question, “Sorry to be harsh, but why would any couple want to play with a guy who isn’t hung?”) and your follow up comment (which says, “We, personally, prefer a larger dick for this specific reason.”).
The most recent aggregate research says the average penis size in North America is 5.1 inches. If you look at individual studies, it ranges from 5 to 5.5.
You, friend, aren’t small. :-)
Porn and social media might make you think you are, but they offer a very distorted view. My specific size doesn’t matter, but I’m larger than average and spent almost all of my adult life thinking I had a very small cock because of what I saw in pictures and videos.
Once we opened our relationship and started playing with other couples/solo guys, I realized that 5.1 inches really is the average. And, being the average, there are as many people below that number as above it.
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Sample size of 1, but we would MUCH rather have a guy with a 5” cock who is attentive, communicates well, has great oral and finger skills, vibes with us as a couple, and is confident, calm, and fully present, than a dude who has an 8” dick, thinks he’s god’s gift to women, and offers nothing else.
When we’re meeting solo guys or guys who are part of a couple, their dick size and dick pics don’t factor into my partner’s decision to play or pass, at all.