Ok, so been in the lifestyle for about 8 years, and I still haven't figured out my best way to clean up my junk.

First time I used soap and a razor like I used to on my face, and it looked like I had an outbreak of something from the amazon, itched like hell and mega embarrassing. It took two weeks to get back to normal.

My wife suggested using her coochie shaving cream, and it helped a lot, but I would still get one or two ingrown that again took a couple of weeks to clear up. Tried going with the grain, exfoliating, all the tips, but always get 1-2 ingrowns. Some have been bad enough to cancel a playdate until it healed.

I then thought Id just keep it trim instead of shaving and tried trimming with my trimmer, but after a nick, never again. (Manscaping trimmer).

I don't have a budget for waxing, unless it's something I can order and diy.

Please help with advice, tips, recommendations. I can't be out of swinging commission for a week every time I need to clean up down there...

Don't need baby smooth, just trimmed up, whatever works.