So, my wife and I have close friends that we frequently play with. All of us are in good shape, mid thirties where my wife is a sexy brunette, and his wife is a hot blonde. When we play, we usually go to separate rooms. The other husband is tall and very good looking but when it comes to sex, he doesn’t usually last very long which is disappointing for my wife. Now my wife usually has a great time with him, but he usually doesn’t make her orgasm. My wife takes a very long time to cum. What usually happens is they play and then join me and the blonde wife in the other room to watch. After I play with the blonde wife, my wife hops on the bed and joins the fun playing with her. So hot and athletic seeing my wife and the blonde have sex. This is our routine, and everyone is happy with the arrangement.

Now with me and the blonde friend, we have great fun. She is multi-orgasmic, but usually doesn’t want the sex to last longer than 10 minutes or so because it becomes painful. She gets very sensitive after a couple of orgasms. I take medications which makes it difficult to finish, so I usually do not orgasm with the friend. This has become an issue where she has concerns she is not satisfying me. She has offered me oral after sex, but I would not subject her to lockjaw with a 10-minute blowjob. Plus, TMI, I am sort of conditioned to view BJs as a precursor to sex, not for finishing… this is just me. So, the lack of orgasms has become a sticking point for her blonde friend which I can understand but make no mistake I have so much fun when I am with her, meaning it is NOT an issue for me.

We recently got together and did our thing going to separate rooms. The blonde friend spent extra time giving me oral and sort of “worshiping” my penis which made me feel extra special. We have had sex several times now, but she was extra passionate on this day. We quickly found our rhythm in several positions, but after 10 minutes she only had one orgasm and looked like she was having fun and was pain free. We continued for several more minutes. My wife and the husband had not entered our room at this time, giving us more privacy. The blonde wife’s body was so responsive and she was moaning and talking a lot saying things like this feels so good or faster or harder. After a very sweaty 15 minutes or so with both of us moaning, I had a very strong orgasm in her vagina. It felt fantastic. She was ecstatic, almost giddy. This might be TMI, but she spent some time touching herself confirming my load, I guess. My wife and the other husband eventually ended up joining us and my wife played with her blonde BFF. We all had a great time.

The next day I received a couple text messages at work from the blonde friend. This was unusual. Then as the week progressed, more and more text messages where she was saying Hi or that she was thinking about me. At the same time, there was no change with her dynamic with my wife where they are “BFFs” and talk daily. So at the end of the week, I causally mentioned the text messages to my wife and my wife sort of blew it off like it was no big deal. So, I am wondering, am I making a bigger deal out of all the text messages then I should be? If not, what should I do? Part of me is wondering if I should do nothing and let this pass. Please note we view this couple as true friends, not just play friends if that makes sense. I think the world of this couple and don’t want to do or say the wrong thing that might blow up the relationship.