Context: I (28F) am in a poly marriage where we date separately. However, I am also interested in further exploring my sexuality through the lifestyle. I have explored some of this with my husband (attending clubs, going to lifestyle resorts) but we have come to the conclusion that this is more of my interest and not his. As such, I am open to meeting singles and couples in the lifestyle as a solo woman.

I am mostly straight with a dash of bi-curious. The most I've done with a woman is going down on her with her guidance but this happened poolside at a lifestyle resort and it didn't go any further. I am open to exploring further given the right chemistry and connection.

At that same resort, I met a couple who is more traditionally swinger in that they only play together, same room swap type situation. He is straight, she is bi comfortable. I don't believe she's had much experience with women but is similar to me in that she's willing to explore. We hung out platonically at the resort and stayed in touch after and long story short, may be meeting up in a few weeks for dinner/drinks and whatever may come after.

We have a group chat and are/will be talking about preferences and boundaries and such, but since there's boundless wisdom here, I wanted to throw the question out - as a solo woman who is mostly straight joining a couple, with their female half also being a novice in terms of playing with women, what can I do to make it the best experience possible for all three of us?